Teenage shoplifting is often seen as a common adolescent rite of passage. Approximately 24% of shoplifters are teenagers. While the reasons can vary, usually teens still on an impulse or for a thrill. Peer pressure is also a common reason. In one recent case written by Family Circle, a girl named Terry who was 17 moved to a new town, and desperate to fit in, skipped choir practice to go to the mall with her new friends. The girls were shopping and after seeing Terry try on a belt, suggested that she steal it. Against her better judgement, Terry put the belt in her purse and walked towards the exit. A security guard in the store apprehended her and arrested her. Terry's parents were shocked at their daughter's behavior, and although the store decided not press charges, the incident had a profound effect on Terry and her parents for years. Terry's story is just one of many. Although her shoplifting experience ended with the belt, many other teenagers continue even after being caught.
In these cases, parents always want to understand why their child has stolen something. In almost all cases, the theft is not need-based, and the teens have difficulty explaining their behavior. Many of these teenagers are troubled, looking for attention, fitting in with their peers, or lashing out at authority. In all of these instances, stopping this self-destructive behavior is the main priority.
While Terry was let off with a warning, many judges are cracking down on juvenile offenders and imposing harsher penalties. While it is rare for teens to be put into the system, a judge will often require community service and usually a theft and shoplifting class. These classes are aimed at helping teenagers to understand why they were shoplifting and also prevent shoplifting in the future.
While shoplifting prevention classes may be court-mandated, parents who are worried about their teenagers should also consider enrolling their children in these classes. While not every area has shoplifting and theft prevention classes, especially rural areas, online classes are available as well. These classes are inexpensive and offer the same benefits as an in-person class. Teens can access the class information 24/7 and also complete it in their own time frame. At the end of the class, teens will receive a completion certificate which is usually required by a judge.
Parents who are worried about their teenager's destructive behavior should seriously consider enrolling their teen in these classes. They are private and can be completed at home without embarrassing the child. As most parents know, life-long habits are formed during teenage years and are cemented for life. Stopping destructive habits is crucial during the teen years, making it incredibly important for parents to recognize and deal with these behaviors. The online classes are not just meant for teenagers who have been caught shoplifting, but also for ones who are at a risk. If concerned about a child and shoplifting, consider enrolling them in these online classes. They are easy and inexpensive and can help stop or prevent destructive habits.
